Tuesday, January 11, 2011

Lying- Wednesday, January 12th

Deception. Failing to tell the truth. Prevaricating. All of these share one common theme: Lying. Lying is something most parents teach their children is a no-no. But is lying always wrong? Can you think of times when lying is not only okay but is actually a good thing?

Post your response to these questions, explaining your reasoning and providing examples supporting your opinion. Sign your name at the top of your comment, then read others' comments and respond to them by name. You will receive a grade on the quality of your TWO responses.

56 comments:

Anonymous said...

Yihuan

I don't think that lying is always wrong, and sometimes a white lie to help many people. For example, when a patient was informed that he was suffering from a terminal illness, but his doctors say his illness is not serious, there is no doubt that doctors lie, but because the lie to the patient's condition has improved, so it is a good thing.

Anonymous said...

Elizabeth
I believe lying is wrong but a good time to lie is when someone' health is on the line. OR like if it is a neccisary lie.

mmatysak said...

what is a necessary lie Elizabeth?

Anonymous said...

Tyler

I think it is really bad to lie for the most part. There are some acceptions though, if you are lieing to keep from hurting or somebody getting hurt then its ok

Anonymous said...

Justice Rowe,

I think that lieing never gets you any where but in some cases it may help like if you was in trouble and people was trying to get somthing out of you about your freinds you are going to lie for them are you or are you not?

Anonymous said...

Bradi Goodrich

i dont know that lying is always a bad thing only because if u are in a lot of truble than if u lie than u might not get killed. So i think that lying is bad but in some cases it is good.

Anonymous said...

Elizabeth To matysak
Like if it isnt a major lie like a surprise party or something. You dont want the person to know about it and they ask what you are doing later , or something (:

Anonymous said...

From Justice to Tyler

Yeah i agree with you i think that if you really have to lie so that your not hurting some one then it is okay.

mmatysak said...

okay, but those are different than say, white lies, right?

Anonymous said...

yes - elizabeth to Mastysak

Anonymous said...

Scott Sullivan
lying is a bad thing to do if you do it all the time, but if its not too serious you can use lies to make jokes which makes everyone happy!

Anonymous said...

austin


lying isnt always a bad thing because say if the president tells u something very secret and tells u not to tell anybody else or ull die im pretty sure that that is a good time to lie

mmatysak said...

Justice,
WHat if they found out that you lied to them? How would they feel?

Anonymous said...

chelsea,

I lie sometimes and i lie because it either gets me out of situations or helps someone else! A good time to lie is say you were talking trash about someone and they wanted to beat you up, well you lie and lie and lie till they really believe you, then you won't be beaten up! Or another good thing to lie about is say you got kiddnapped by some weirdo russian dudes and they wanted something from you, then you lie and say you have the wrong person and then they might let you go! So i say that not all lies and bad!

mmatysak said...

Other examples Austin?

Anonymous said...

Sean-John
i agree that lying is wrong but sometimes good. Sometimes lying can protect people. But lying to the wrong person can get you killed. I do lie some times. But most of the time i get cought.

Anonymous said...

Tom

I suppose lying isnt always bad, but it is for the most part. I think that you should be honest and straitforward with most things with few exeptions, for example a hostage situation.

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mmatysak said...

Chelsea- let's stick to realistic examples

Anonymous said...

Colton

When i think lying is a very suitable time to lie is when, if your married and your wifes says does she look fat in the new dress that she just bought for your two's date night and you don't wanna hurt her feeling so you say the one thing that comes to mind, "Of cource not honny, you look perfect." Even though you are thinking," Man wich plane do i have to take to get on her good side." Thats when i think lieing is a good thing.

Anonymous said...

austin to scott

i agree with u and yes it does make it funny when someone lyes

Anonymous said...

Anthony

I dont think lying is always wrong. I think its okay to lie when you didnt do your homework and you tell the teacher you forgot it at home and you do it later that night.

Anonymous said...

so what mmatysak black cant lie right

Anonymous said...

tyler

Think about this too. if your friends tell you something and they dont want you tellign anyone else cause its secret, and someone asks you about it, lieing would be ok, because would yoiu wrather tell someone the truth or have your friends not be able to trust and tell you anything anymore.

Anonymous said...

Arianna

lie is bad only when its for the wrong reasons like to be sneaky and under handed. and to trick some one into believing what you want for your own benifit. but in some other ways lieing for the other persons benefit is good like adults lieing about santa and the easster bunny , it gives thier children something to look forward to and believe in and it makes them happy. in that case lieing would be good!

Anonymous said...

Justice Rowe, They would probably feel like you arnt a very good friend but your really doing it to save them?

mmatysak said...

so Arianna- there are good lies and bad lies?

Anonymous said...

wow ben

Anonymous said...

Meagan,
If you have a surprise you wouldn't want to ruin it, or if you had a present and wouldn't want to let them know what it is then you would have to lie, a little white lie is okay in some situations but in others can really make a big situation that involves a lot of drama.

Anonymous said...

Good point Arianna-Anthony

mmatysak said...

Anthony - why is that lie to your teacher okay?

Anonymous said...

Elizabeth to Colton
If i were married and i asked if i looked fat i would hope my husband would tell me the truth (: haha

Anonymous said...

Brandon
i think that lying can only be acceptable if peoples health or lives are at stake.

Anonymous said...

austin

but if u lie to get out of troube like say u brake something and say ur little brother did it which by the way works when ur brother cant talk yet and is to stupid to figure out that u did but anyway its wrong to lie no matter what expessially the little white lies cause they only get bigger and harder to cover up

Anonymous said...

Nichole,
I don't think it is okay to lie, but sometimes it is acceptable to lie. It is only acceptable to lie if you are helping somebody. Like if someone asks you if you know something about so lie and say no so it doesnt cause any fighting or anything like that.

mmatysak said...

Elizabeth and Colton - interesting topic

Anonymous said...

Meagam I have to agree a little white lie is okay in some situations. -Anthony

Anonymous said...

chelsea to mrs.matysak when do you think a lie is nescassary?

mmatysak said...

but who determines if what your doing is really "helping"?

Anonymous said...

JAke RyAn
lying is a tricky subject becasue it is indeed wrong to lie but depending on the situation it could be a good thing. Lying about murder or somting of the extent is wrong but i dont see a proble with a little white lie like telling your kid that there pet ran away instead of telling them taht it died.

Anonymous said...

Elizabeth to Jake I agree with your post on what to lie about and what not to.

Anonymous said...

arianna to matysak

yes when that person is doing it for the other persons benefit and not their own

Anonymous said...

I agree with jake because the situation on witch your lying does matter a lot

Anonymous said...

opps sorry I spelled you name wrong Meagan

Anonymous said...

Nikki @ Tyler,
I agree with your statement.

Anonymous said...

Justice Rowe,

Well really nobody i guess thats when it comes down to asking your self is this the right thing to do?

Anonymous said...

Sean-Joh
that last no name was me

Anonymous said...

chelsea to jacke,

i agree with you because you could either be hurt or praised!

Anonymous said...

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Anonymous said...

Tyler

Nikki is right, i would wrather to to someone to keep them safe than tell the truth and start more crap and fights yada yada yada

Anonymous said...

Elizabeth to Colton .
No response?.

Anonymous said...

Sean-John
I agree with jake

Anonymous said...

Benjamin best
no lying is not always wrong because sometimes you should lie so you don't hurt peoples feelings.

Anonymous said...

Tyler I agree with you.

I agree with Jake about the pets.

Kristina said...

arianna to matysak yes when that person is doing it for the other persons benefit and not their own

Ayyagarihgli said...

Other examples Austin?